CoolSJF (a pseudonym), a longtime reader of JDaters Anonymous, writes:

I’ve been a non-paying member of jdate for a couple years now and a friend finally convinced me to pay for a month. Believe me, I’m regretting it…. Please see the below, very upsetting IM conversation iIhad with a jdater. I wish there were some way to have him blacklisted. Maybe I should contact Jdate?? What are your thoughts? Should I do anything or just forget about it?

[J.A. note: all names have been changed. Some offensive language–and tons of offensive typos– follows.]

weirdosjm: hi
coolsjf: yo
weirdosjm: whats up beutiful
coolsjf: not much. i wish itwere a beautiful day out like it was on monday
weirdosjm: i know right
coolsjf: i know we’ve chatted b4, but will u remind me where we met / what your profile is?
weirdosjm: jdate, IMmeNow
coolsjf: aha that’s rigth
weirdosjm: good
weirdosjm: remember i liked ur smile
coolsjf: indeed
weirdosjm: so whats up
coolsjf: just chillin’. still recuperating from the wkd
weirdosjm: i c
weirdosjm: so re we going to get some coffee some time?
weirdosjm: hello?
coolsjf: HA I KNEW IT
coolsjf: sorry wrong IM
weirdosjm: what?
weirdosjm: so r we?
weirdosjm: hello?
coolsjf: well…
coolsjf: the thing is… i’m sort of seeing someone right now
weirdosjm: no ur not
weirdosjm: y r u on jdate then
coolsjf: b/c i just started seeing him
weirdosjm: so it dont mean anything
coolsjf: doesn’t
weirdosjm: so y cant we hang out
coolsjf: things are pretty crazy
weirdosjm: whatever
weirdosjm: alot of girls tellme this nad 2 weeks later they r back on jdate
coolsjf: fine.
coolsjf: well #1 i am seeing someone
coolsjf: #2 i am just not that interested
weirdosjm: ur not seeing nay one
coolsjf: but it’s hard to tell someone that
coolsjf: i am.
weirdosjm: c not interested
weirdosjm: i told u
coolsjf: but it’s 2 reasons
weirdosjm: its ok i’ll put in that category any way
coolsjf: it’s a guy in jersey who has come to the city multiple times to take me out.
coolsjf: and i think it might be going somewhere.
weirdosjm: plus i just looked at ur pic any way
weirdosjm: u think?
weirdosjm: ok n ever mind, ur oic says it all any way
weirdosjm: pic*
weirdosjm: ur probabnly a virgin any way
coolsjf: so now you are resorting to insulting me?
coolsjf: sheesh.
weirdosjm: and not clean shaved
coolsjf: like that would be a character flaw even if it were true.
coolsjf: come on.
weirdosjm: yup
coolsjf: take rejection like a man.
weirdosjm: i c u have no experince
weirdosjm: u call that a rejection?
weirdosjm: u really have no experince
weirdosjm: no wonder ur on the site
coolsjf: i am a very fun social girl with a lot of friends and no lack of interested guys.
weirdosjm: thats ur problem
coolsjf: read it again.
coolsjf: try to comprehend.
coolsjf: where did you go? YU?
weirdosjm: hell no
coolsjf: or a technical school that doesn’t actually award bachelor degrees?
weirdosjm: i am getting my licensce soon and wil make more than people with masters
coolsjf: license
coolsjf: but at least they can spell
coolsjf: and come across as competent, intelligent and caring.
weirdosjm: its a c omputer moran
coolsjf: moron
weirdosjm: i’m chatting with 6 people
coolsjf: mazel tov
weirdosjm: ;-) thanks bitch
coolsjf: so let’s stop talking. it’s a waste of my time.
weirdosjm: ur time?
weirdosjm: ok cunt go
weirdosjm: and some advise change t he pic on ur profile
coolsjf: ADVICE
coolsjf: why? ’cause i dont’ wear make-up? ’cause i’m honest about what i’m like?
weirdosjm: no its more than that
coolsjf: don’t worry. i’ve attracted guys who i’m interested in
weirdosjm: i’m sure u have that y ur on it every day
coolsjf: i’m not going to stoop to insulting you, but your profile is nothing to brag about (pictures and content)
coolsjf: actually i’m not,but even if it were true, how would you know it? it would mean that YOU’RE on every day
weirdosjm: u know how many emails i get everyday
weirdosjm: and its STOP
weirdosjm: not stoop
coolsjf: no it’s STOOP, you imbecile. look it up in a dictionary.
weirdosjm: i am on every day the more pussy the better
coolsjf: i’m not going to STOOP to insulting you.
weirdosjm: u can keep goin
coolsjf: stoop as in bend down, get so low and pathetic as to do something.
coolsjf: that’s the literal definition. the way i used it was figurative.
weirdosjm: good so go teach then
coolsjf: why don’t you go on craig’s list if all you want is action ?
weirdosjm: i hope this guy see’s ur on jdate everyday
coolsjf: SEES
weirdosjm: whats craigs list
weirdosjm: ?
coolsjf: oh here you go. please leave jdate forever. go to newyork.craigslist.org — they have personals sections. it’s all free. you can go to “casual encounters.” it seems like it’s more your speed.
weirdosjm: k thanks
coolsjf: oh check it. there’s a website called f*ckbuddies.com. just what you need. it’s for slimey losers who can’t find a real relationship.
weirdosjm: i dont do that stuff those people arent clean
coolsjf: and you are? when were you last tested? given that you say: “i am on every day the more pussy the better”

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